Deposit or Withdrawal?
Key 1: Deposits need to be frequent and consistent
Just as the body needs food frequently and consistently to stay healthy, relationships need the same nourishment as well. The closer the relationship, the more frequent and consistent the deposits need to be.
Key 2: Deposits do not occur until the recipient considers it a deposit
You simply don’t know what constitutes a deposit until you understand the other person. For some, receiving feedback and comments on things they’ve done is a deposit. For others, it’s a withdrawal. If your motives for making a deposit are not sincere, others will feel manipulated. It’s not about doing or saying things that look positive. Your intentions can be good, but only the person you are interacting with can decide whether your gesture is a deposit or a withdrawal.
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